Change is different for everyone . People go through different changes in life and might not know how to react to it even if the change is big , small , good or bad people will still have some sort of adjusting to do . Make it easier for people to accept their change , be a friend , and help them by telling them change is always good in the end , but it will just take time . Everyone should be able to feel suitable with how their living , even if you do have adjusting to do , nothing is easy in life . Sometimes the road has bumps , and you have to slow down to make sure you get over it okay . The roads never end , the journey does , and that’s your choice to stop or not .
Life is full of hasty emotions that can enlarge a persons out looks on one another . People judge others on looks , qualities , emotions , and how normal they are . Take a look around , no one is perfect , in fact no one is even close to being perfect .There are people in the world who look into the mirror and cry when they see themselves . Some people look the way they do because of how people make them feel . People need to realize it doesn’t matter what you look like in the outside , because the true beauty lies within . Everyone should be who their set out to be , you look and act the way you do for a reason , that reason is to be different . If we were all the same , life would be boring , much less confusing . be proud of who you are .
I feel that when you think you get to know someone , and you become so close to each other , you think no matter what you’ll always be friends . No back stabbing or regrets . Just friendship . It took me months , maybe years to figure out that , that person who you gave your all to , you told each other everything , and was always there for each other through the good and bad . Now as you look at each other with disgust , you can’t even believe that you were friends to begin with . You know you miss each other though , and are dying to tell each other one last secret . Instead of going up to each other and hugging each other tight , laughing at how stupid this is , you walk in separate directions , that being the only regret you’ll have . Once a friend , always a friend . Even though things don’t seem to be as planned for some people , my thoughts are to just keep your head high , open your eyes , clear your mind , open your eyes and say what exactly is on your mind , good or bad . Be truthful . I know I would rather be honest , and hurt someone with the truth , then lie , and act like everything is alright . It’s all a bunch of brain dead nonsense to me .
We were holding hands in the cold sand under the bright full moon , hearing the small strong waves crash upon the shore line . You made me never stop smiling , or even laughing for that matter . You could do a simple thing as to blink , or twitch , and I fell in love every moment you moved closer to me . I’m in love with the way you look into my eyes , not just my face , how you see me for me , and not what you want me to be . Most of all , when you hold me tight , and call my name in the silent whispering voice of yours , that gives me tingles up and down my body , i will always know your the one , the one I will love , always and forever . The wind started up and blew the trees strong , this time I twitched as the cool air glided across my body I sat up in confusion , realizing I’m in my bed , and it’s 5:30am , everything was perfect , until I woke from that amazing dream . This is how I know that life is always going to be based off of fantasy’s , it will never be reality .
“I miss the time ,
When we were lying on the beach ,
And your arms are rapped around me ,
When the sun was going down ,
And you were always with me ,
And when you looked into my eyes ,
When you started to kiss me ,
I knew it was meant to be ,
just you , and me . ♥”—Amber-Arlene Quinn
Let me get this straight , just when you think your doing good , and achieving something , it just all stops . For example , when you think your with the right guy one day , and you really think you want to be with him , someone else pops into your mind . You achieved that you thought you had one guy , but really you wanted the other one . You make an effort to go for the other one thinking he’s the right one , then you realize that neither of these guys are the one you want .. Therefore you remember someone else in your past and you go rooting for him , and have been this whole time . That’s why life choices always go in the order “One step forward .. Two steps back .” Working so hard at something that’s trying to go somewhere , and you realizing you haven’t even moved yet . That’s life .
It’s hard to say that you can trust anyone , even your most closest friends , because in the end their bound to tell someone . Everyone has a best friend , whether or not its their mom , dad , brother , sister , girl-friend , guy-friend , girlfriend or boyfriend you will always have someone , or so you will think . If your most closest friend told you something , you would obviously tell them what you want to hear , and when you tell them those words “you can trust me” you think your telling the truth , but in the end , your going to tell someone to get it off your chest . Now telling a secret to someone , and lying are two different things . I just want someone to look into my eyes , and tell me the truth , saying anything , and everything , that doesn’t include lying . It’s hard to think you have someone there for you all the time , when you find out their exactly what you thought from the very beginning . I once told someone the truth about how I felt about them , and it came from the heart , I used passion and honesty . In return I got things that I thought weren’t true in the beginning , and just flattery , but they started to grow on me , near came the end when i found out the person I trusted the most was an untruthful amazing *** .
Crying isn’t a sign of weakness , it’s a sign that you are capable of trying to be stronger , and let all the mixed up emotions out , rather then to sit there on a bench in everyday life , staring at the sky with a million emotions tied up within you , hoping that someday soon you’ll have someone to share them with; Share them with yourself , before you start sharing with others .
A lot of people in your life are going to tell you that you can dream big or go home, or they will tell you to always chase your dreams and anything can be possible if you just believe in yourself. I have come to a conclusion that people just say that to make you feel confident about your long life choices. When you’re a child parents expect you to dream so big, you could fly to the moon. When you turn maybe nine, and ask your parents again, they tell you its still possible, but you feel their connection isn’t as strong as it was when you were younger. You turn to be a teenager, and you expectations are unlimited, anything you want, you want at that very moment, and if you cant get it then, you will wait and wait, but because its reality and not a fantasy, you ask your parents maybe one last time about fallowing your dreams, and they say make the right choice I cant make it for you. They expect you to graduate, go to university or collage, and make a living out of the life you have. People might not take into consideration that dreaming is the only thing some people have left in life . When it’s drifting away from people telling you negative thoughts , you could drift away with it .